moving and losing friends

Anonymous Smitten Flirt #224 · General

so i moved to this new city like a month ago man it was such a big change. my whole life was back in the old place with all my childhood friends you know? but now its just me in an apartment trying to find a job and make new friends. the thing is there's this one friend, let's call her lucy, we grew up together since like grade school. she knew everything about me. i thought maybe when i told her i was moving, that it would change nothing. but now all of sudden its like she kinda ghosted me after our last talk. we text and stuff every few days but there's no real conversation going on anymore. i guess i'm just feeling lost here with everything changing around me. its hard not having those old friends to lean on, you know? so this is my confession that i kind of feel like an asshole for expecting more from lucy since she's still in the hometown and probably has her own life now. but honestly i miss her friendship a lot and it makes me sad thinking about how close we were back then. guess i just need to accept things are different now and find new ways to make friends here.